Saturday, January 31, 2009

An AMAZING weekend!

For those of you who know and LOVE my sister Shana as much as I do, I thought I would share with you our most wonderful weekend we had last week. For those of you who don't know her, I will feel you in, and am quite positive you will soon see her in the light that everyone that comes into her path does!
Shana is amazing. She is the kind of person everyone wants to be like. She's beautiful, kind, thrifty, industrious, hard-working, devoted, motherly(and she has been her whole life...trust me! She still thinks she's my mother sometimes..eheheh) and many more things that I could go on to mention, but truth is she will probably read this and yell at me, so...whatever:)
So here begins my story...her story. Shana was able to have 2 children of her own, but after that, the doctors warned her that if she were to have more children it would mean her life. But being the person that she is, she didn't take the news easy. She has always wanted several children, and she is the kind of woman to handle it. Her husband and her prayed and prayed for years, enduring a lot of heartache. They finally realized another child for them was not possible. However, about 2 years ago, they decided that maybe adoption was the way for them. They put in their papers and patiently waited until July 30th 2008 when she got the call that they had a son for her, and he was to be born on August 1st! It was an amazing time. I am sure that some of you remember my excitement from it all. So, on August 1st Jedediah Steven Mortensen was born.
Not too long after, in the month of November, Shana's family was chosen for National Adoption day to be the family in the valley that got to finalize their adoption early in order to promote it. So on November 13th, Jed was made an official part of the Mortensen family. It was really neat. The judge made a big ordeal of it, and Shana's sweet family was on the news, and it was very special and emotional for them and the rest of our family.
Here they are at the event.
This is where they stand before the judge, and swear to love him. what a SWEET picture!
Adoption has come to grow very fond in all of our hearts. I was able to serve in orphanages in Ecuador and see the profound effect of what taking a child into your heart (and home) can do for you and for them. And on top of that in March 2006 my Brother and Sister-in-law recieved one of the biggest blessings of our family, our own little man Mitchel! I remember sitting on the bed in the apartment when I got the phone call from them, and i started jumping on the bed sobbing. Caleb came in very confused, but that memory still brings tears to my eyes. He is great, and we love him. And now adding Jed to our family has been amazing too. I had quite the same reaction to Jed's. Lots of tears, lots of emotion, and loads of Gratitude to our Father in Heaven for hearing our prayers.
But, making him officially theirs doesn't end with a judge. No, they still needed to have him sealed to them so it could last not only in this life, but for Eternity. So that brings me to this most WONDERFUL OCCASION of sealing Jed into the Mortensen family. I can't even begin to express to you how beautiful it was. My family is really lucky to have done this before, and get to do it again! There was sure an amazing spirit that day. I thought I would better be able to express my feelings on the subject, but I'm finding it a little difficult and incredibly emotional. All I can say is that I love this guy! He is so sweet, and I KNOW that he was meant to be a part of our family, and I am so grateful that he is. Here are some pictures from the big event....
Even if we had to drive in this crap-ola weather,

And even if everywhere we looked there were these...

It couldn't keep us away from this!!!
Don't they look beautiful!? Kira and Reese were great. I think it's really special that they are old enough that they are going to be able to remember this.

Jed loves his Grandma very much. I think the feeling is mutual:)

Jed has some competition though, because everyone else really loves grandma too! But I don't think he minded...(check it out, he's holding her hand!)

Mitchel really LOVES babies. He was kissing on his cousin. I tell you what, he's so cute I could just squeeze him to death! Funny story actually. Emersyn was asleep, so I went and laid her in the corner of the couch, and covered her with an extra blanket on the side so she couldn't roll anywhere. The adults were all playing games in the kitchen, and all of the kids were sleeping except Mitchel, and he was watching a movie. When it came time to leave, we went to get Emi, and she was clear on the other side of the room laying there under the piano smiling and playing with Cousin Mitchel! He must have just picked her up and moved her. Thank heavens he was gentle and sweet. Very cute!

Funny thing is here he is treating and loving Adi the same way when she was a baby:)

And one last picture of the awesome FAMILY on their special special weekend! I am so grateful for good family.

15 comments:

KellyAnn said...

I don't need to tell you my thoughts on adoption:) I loved reading that. The four most wonderful and best experiences in my life have been, when Wade and I went to the temple and when we took each of our three kids to the temple. That is probably the greatest blessing of adoption.
Congrats to your sis.

becca said...

What an awesome story! They are a beautiful family! All of the Whitters grandkids are adorable! Thanks for sharing that.

crystal carlson said...

Yay!! I'm so excited for Shanna & Tom and your family! That is so neat that you were able to be with them when they were sealed together as an eternal family! He really is a cutie and sounds like a sweet baby too!

Ariana said...

I'm so happy for them. And you're right, Shana is an amazing person.

The King's said...

I can totally understand how hard it is to truely express the feelings that come with an experience like this. It is amazing and I am so happy for your sister and her family. Adoption is a wonderful thing and has brought a lot of joy to me and my family. What a beautiful day.

Rick and Collette said...

That is so great for your entire family! I've only met your sister a few times but I agree that she was so sweet and nice. (Remember our Boise trip days and staying at her house, fun times!) I'm happy for her and her family. I agree that family is what it is all about. Looks like a special weekend.

KWit said...

That was an EXCEPTIONAL weekend. The forever family ties, everyone laughing, photo's, food, all the little cousins giggling.. like you it could go on and on! What a great celebration for a wonderful family!!

tsmortensen said...

Thanks for that post Ash! It made me cry again just reading it! I have so much to be grateful for and family is on the top of that list!

Gayle said...

Nice post Ash. I almost cried, but i'm reading it at work so i made the witters cry face instead! It was a great weekend and it was so special.

Lee and Roni Poston said...

Heavenly Father definently knows what he is doing. What a great story. Congratulations on the new addition.

Amanda said...

I definately agree, it is the neatest experience to go to the temple and watch precious little adopted children be SEALED to their family! All three times we got to go to the temple with Kelly's kids were just awesome. It really is indescribable. I'm very happy for your sister!

Amanda said...

Oh yeah, the February Ensign had some neat articles on adoption that I loved. It really is such an amazing thing, and such a blessing to both the child and the family.

Lee and Roni Poston said...

To Ash, It did say check. I'm with you I thought it was like the hip new saying. But she said it was a type-o so she wanted me to get on and fix it for her while she was at school. what happened to my baby? Enjoy them while they are little.

Mary said...

Yes, it really is a wonderful experience! I feel so lucky to have been able to be there with Kelly's family for her two younger children were sealed (I hadn't been through the temple yet when Briaunna was a baby).

Congrats to your sister and her family!

Leesa said...

That was a very beautiful post. The picture of Shanna and her family all dressed in white is precious.